What do you do now?

So you've had the terrifying experience of meeting your significant others friends, and he has met yours. Great, that stress is out of the way.

Until you discover your friends aren't crazy about him, and his friends are less-than-impressed with you.

Oops.

What do you do then? You can't abandon all your friends, and expect him to do the same, because than you are left on your own little twosome island...one that will definitely start to get a little too restrictive. Not to mention, you like your friends, you want to hang out with them. And every now and then, you would like your boyfriend to be by your side.

In my current relationship, this isn't a problem. As far as I can tell, both sets of friends approve of my BF and I's pairing. Whew! But I've heard many cases where that isn't so easy. One of my BF's friend's has the nightmare girlfriend who has turned into such a pain, my BF won't even go to his friend's apartment if she is there...and he is not the only one who thinks that lowly of her!

Have you been in that position? And what do you do to maintain the relationship with friends rooting against you?