Your definition, please?
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An image forever branded in the minds of most Americans is arguably the one of Bill Clinton telling the world that he did not have "sexual relations" with Monica Lewinsky. Of course, that turned out to be less than the truth, and good old Clinton tried to spin it in an interesting way. He said he didn't think that oral sex was included when discussing sexual relations.
In his mind, the only act included in that phrase is the good old-fashioned way.
Yesterday, we discussed the fact that more people are having pre-marital sex. But what exactly is that? When Clinton went into spin-control, the country was divided. Some agreed with him that sex ACTS were not actually sex, while others disagreed and said anything sexual is having sex. Period.
In my mind, when someone says "I'm going to have sex," I don't think they are talking about oral or otherwise. And I don't think any sex act is actually having sex. It's a variation, yes, but not the real thing. There's a lot more hoopla surrounding losing one's virginity than there is in losing one's sex act virginity.
But what do you think? What actually constitutes having sex? Is it any and all acts, or is it just the "old-fashioned" way that forced an uncomfortable talk between you and your parents?
An image forever branded in the minds of most Americans is arguably the one of Bill Clinton telling the world that he did not have "sexual relations" with Monica Lewinsky. Of course, that turned out to be less than the truth, and good old Clinton tried to spin it in an interesting way. He said he didn't think that oral sex was included when discussing sexual relations.
In his mind, the only act included in that phrase is the good old-fashioned way.
Yesterday, we discussed the fact that more people are having pre-marital sex. But what exactly is that? When Clinton went into spin-control, the country was divided. Some agreed with him that sex ACTS were not actually sex, while others disagreed and said anything sexual is having sex. Period.
In my mind, when someone says "I'm going to have sex," I don't think they are talking about oral or otherwise. And I don't think any sex act is actually having sex. It's a variation, yes, but not the real thing. There's a lot more hoopla surrounding losing one's virginity than there is in losing one's sex act virginity.
But what do you think? What actually constitutes having sex? Is it any and all acts, or is it just the "old-fashioned" way that forced an uncomfortable talk between you and your parents?
posted by Anonymous at 1:07 PM
2 Comments:
When I think of sex, I think of intercourse. Oral sex (or even touching for that matter) is a sexual relation/activity.
Sex is sex whether by hand, mouth, vagina, or anus--and it's all good as long as it's with the right person : )
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