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Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Love letters



About six months into my relationship with my BF, he went overseas for 55 days. Not an incredibly long time, mind you, but I tried to send care packages and cards every couple of days while he was gone.

And at one point, I reached back into the days before e-mail and composed a letter. I hadn't written letters since I was a young kid, and even then I think it was merely a hello not to my Grandma. But this one was difficult. I wanted it to be interesting and funny, and not incredibly mushy.

Luckily, I apparently penned it perfectly. He told me that he liked the letter, and was glad it didn't fall into the following categories: 1. The "I can't live without you, you are my life" type letter, or 2. "You're great, but I slept with your best friend and am now dumping you." I pretty much steered clear of both (obviously the second wasn't warranted, and I definitely limited the mushy).

But letters, especially to your significant other, can be difficult to write, and sometimes don't come out maybe the way they were supposed to. I've never received a creepy love letter and I definitely don't think I have sent one.

What do you think about writing love letters? Is it still cute, or just weird? What's the best one you have ever gotten? Or on the flip side, what has some of the scariest been like?

2 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think letters are an awesome old-fashioned way of saying what is on your heart. E-mail and text messaging shorten our thoughts. When we got married my husband wanted to register for a lunch bag and I laughed at him cause I thought it was silly. He didn't get it at our shower and was crushed. So as part of his wedding present, I got him the lunch bag and put inside it a letter I wrote him telling him how excited I was to get married that day and spend the rest of our lives together. He thought it was cute and it was a great way to say all the things you are too nervous to say on a special day.

9:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Anon #1: That story is so cute!

I have to admit, I'm not a big love letter writer because I always feel like I come off sounding dumb. I really have never gotten a true "letter" either, but I bet that if I did I would love it!

9:58 AM  

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