I'm not saying she's a Gold-digger...
But while watching Dr. Phil this morning, I don't know if there is any other way to describe the guest and "the love of her life." She's an 18-year-old high school graduate, he's a 40-year-old cosmetic surgeon. Want to know where they met? SugarDaddy.com. And yes, it is a real Web site...complete with the tagline "Where the rich and the beautiful play." I don't want to link to it, because, really, who wants to condone this?
And these two have been together for four months, he bought her a Mercedes for her High School graduation, flies her regularly from Texas (where she lives) to California (where he is). The best part? They are already talking marriage, and she said there is no need for a pre-nup because they will be married forever.
I wonder if she even believed that as the words came out of her mouth!
Seriously, who are these people? It's completely obvious that she was only with him for his money, and he not only acknowledged it, but he said he likes the idea of "taking care" of someone! What happens in your head when the idea of faking love becomes a fantastic idea if it means being rich??
I am in no ways rich, and like everyone else, would like more money. But I could never date someone solely on the chance that he may buy me a nice car. The idea of it, and what the pair on the Dr. Phil show are engaged in, is basically legal prostitution!
What do you think about these relationships? Are these people truly able to be in love?
And these two have been together for four months, he bought her a Mercedes for her High School graduation, flies her regularly from Texas (where she lives) to California (where he is). The best part? They are already talking marriage, and she said there is no need for a pre-nup because they will be married forever.
I wonder if she even believed that as the words came out of her mouth!
Seriously, who are these people? It's completely obvious that she was only with him for his money, and he not only acknowledged it, but he said he likes the idea of "taking care" of someone! What happens in your head when the idea of faking love becomes a fantastic idea if it means being rich??
I am in no ways rich, and like everyone else, would like more money. But I could never date someone solely on the chance that he may buy me a nice car. The idea of it, and what the pair on the Dr. Phil show are engaged in, is basically legal prostitution!
What do you think about these relationships? Are these people truly able to be in love?
posted by Anonymous at 1:41 PM
6 Comments:
I think some women feel they need to 'marry up'. To them, love = money. They truely believe the person will make them happy, because they can give them everything (really meaning materials). And look what great examples we have to go by on our TV. Young girls today are overly obsessed with 'keeping up' with some of the famous girls, ie Paris Hilton and the like. Same reason why so many girls have health issues today.
This a prime example of what happens when people don't put God first in their lives. They seek after to wrong things for fulfillment. Instead of putting God first and allowing him to bring fulfillments through his blessings.
I'll go out on a limb and say this girl has some pretty bad daddy/daughter issues. She expects men to provide 100% for her in life, no matter role that man actually fills! Probably true for a lot of the girls on there.
If the relationship works for them, let them do it. I personally don't think I could be in a relationship that was based on money instead of love, but that is what marriages were based on for the majority of human history. And since money is often a factor in the break-up of many marriages, maybe it is something we should consider when we are starting a new relationship...
Whatever the basis of a marriage is , it remains the basis and if absent then so goes the marriage.. One based on love, committment and loyalty can have other added assets but has much more to fall back on in troubled times.One based on sex flies out the window when the sex goes and believe it or not ,it can go.One based on money might go smoothly as long as the taker doesn't get greedy and the giver never tires of giving but there too lies the possibility of the funds running low and there goes that marriage,, Different strokes for different folks , personally , he would have to have more than money for me...
Oh, I forgot to mention the best part...she calls him "Daddy." Creepy. So Becki, you may have something going there with the daddy issues.
This girl is 18, she is so young and yet this guy knows it, and keeps her around because she is pretty and will stay loyal as long as he keeps the gifts and money coming.
I guess if it works for her, then great. But it seems like an empty lifestyle to me!
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